All of us are masters of our own destiny, either in general or with something specific. Our destiny is determined by our own actions and efforts more than what others do. The level we find ourselves at is the level for which we have endeavored. This is where we have placed ourselves. There is positive energy in this, as where you are is where you are meant to be.
Sometimes we may feel adverse energy coming from others because of where or who we are. That is their problem – as long as they are not trying to harm us in some way. There is no benefit in having that kind of energy affect us.
Life has so much joy to offer when we are content with where we are. We can find fulfillment in that, and savor what our lives bring to us.