Being self-aware is to look inwards and know how you feel and think. Knowing this means you understand how your actions affect yourself and others. It also means you are comfortable with who and what you are. You know your limits, so you are confident in yourself.
Being self-aware gives you the ability to be kind and empathetic, so you not only know yourself but you are deeply aware of those people who have meaning in your life. You are comfortable with your emotions, so you can be emotionally available to others.
The better the quality of your relationships, the greater the value of your spirituality. Keep your relationships genuine and you keep the emanations of your aura strong – internally and externally.