We are free to choose the paths which we wish to go down, and our choices determine whether we have good or bad outcomes. We may have people or situations exert great influence on our decisions, but the final decisions are ultimately ours. We cannot blame anyone else for a negative outcome of a decision, as we consciously made that decision of our own accord. We should repent if we choose wrongly, as we will be held accountable sooner or later.
Your greatest gift is the gift of life, and choice is the most important element of that gift. Therefore, your life should be led with vitality and judiciousness. Living a passive life is not living life. Controlling your life and determining its outcomes is the meaning of life. Your ability to choose gives you a feeling of empowerment. After all, don’t you feel better after making a decision?