If you do something wrong, you must make amends. But forgiveness from the one you offended may not come right away.

God loves you when you are aware you did wrong and act to make things right. Do that and God will be with you right away.

If you have been harmed physically, financially or even emotionally, you are justified in seeking restitution. But begrudging someone when you don’t deserve any compensation is vengeful and wrong.

A friend or associate is not required to do something for you just because you asked. It might seem indecent of them, but that’s no reason to say or do something uncivil in return. It’s a small thing in the big picture and not worth getting distraught over. You’re better than that. By keeping your self-control and dignity, you will do wonders for your soul and spirit.

Sometimes obstacles seem to get in the way of you trying to accomplish something good. Fate is not the reason for this. Should you think that, get it out of your mind.

Roadblocks may be put there by a negative energy intent on stopping what might be a defining moment for you or someone else. You can overcome that energy. Keep pursuing your goal and your healthy, positive energy will help you to finish what you started.

When greeting a mourner, most people say something like, “I’m sorry for your loss.” This is like what is in the middle of a bagel. It is cliché. They will respond with a smile and a thank you, to make you feel better for your lack of originality. So what should you say?

Your words should make them feel warm inside, so they can appreciate what they have instead of what they have lost. That’s not easy, as they are suffering and feel distressed—even if it doesn’t show.

One way to do this is to make them laugh, or at least make them smile. This will ease their anguish, as you will remind them of the joy which is found in life.

Or give them words of strength and praise, to help them accept the pain of grief. Let them understand their loss is not a personal affliction against them, and to be thankful for the life to come. That way, if they feel they are being punished, they will at least sense some justification. It will help them find acceptance, feel better about themselves, and have a quicker recovery from their mourning.

Accomplish this and you will have done a very good deed, as this will make both your spirits smile.

It’s your own fault if you contaminate your soul with bad deeds or extreme desires and then can’t receive the sublime light of spirituality lying within it.

But redemption will help you regain that illumination and you will move on to a higher spiritual plane.